Alcoholics can be cured
March 3, 2010
The following article was published September 19,1964
From the September 19, 1964 Saturday Evening Post.ALCOHOLICS CAN BE CURED--DESPITE A.A.By Dr. Arthur H. Cain
An expert charges that Alcoholics anonymous has become a dogmatic cult that blocks medical progress and hampers many members' lives.
It is time we made a thorough investigation of Alcoholics Anonymous in the interest of our public health. A.A. is identified in the public mind as a God-fearing fellowship of 350,000 "arrested alcoholics" who keep one another sober and rescue others from the horrors of alcoholism. Unfortunately, A.A. has become a dogmatic cult whose chapters too often turn sobriety into slavery to A.A. Because of its narrow outlook, Alcoholics Anonymous prevents thousands from ever being cured. Moreover A.A has retarded scientific research into one of America's most serious health problems. Read more
How to Write Your Christian Testimony
October 14, 2009
By Mary Fairchild, About.com
Skeptics may debate the validity of Scripture or argue the existence of God, but no one can deny your personal experiences with him. When you tell your story of how God has worked a miracle in your life, or how he has blessed you, transformed you, lifted and encouraged you, perhaps even broken and healed you, no one can argue or debate it. You go beyond the realm of knowledge into the realm of relationship with God.
These steps are designed to help you write your Christian testimony. They apply for both long and short, written and spoken testimonies. Whether you are planning to write down your full, detailed testimony or preparing a quick 2-minute version of your testimony to share on a short-term mission trip, these tips and steps will help you tell others with sincerity, impact and clarity what God has done in your life. Read more
Family – A Good Place to Start
September 23, 2009
Daily Devotional, September 18th
Posted to Genesis 37:4 on Sep 14, 2009 at 02:43 PM
Genesis 37:4
His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers; and so they hated him and could not speak to him on friendly terms.
“Family ties”
Thwack! The sound signaled trouble. With our parents gone, my sister and I had started a mashed potato fight instead of doing the dishes. Chasing her down the stairs with tinfoil box in hand, I was determined she wouldn’t win even though I was younger. The strains of victory died, however, when an unseen door met with her glasses. We were going to get it for sure.
Designed by God to give us a sense of our identity, family is one of the first places we discover what we like, what we’re good at, and how to relate to others. It’s also where we first experience conflict. Even in the strongest of families, we go through hurts that cause us to believe wrong things about ourselves.
In reading the story of Joseph, we often focus on what Joseph suffered because of his brothers’ jealousy. While this story is an important lesson in forgiveness (Genesis 50:20-21), it also demonstrates how family issues strike deep at the heart.
The firstborn of Jacob’s favorite wife (30:22-24), Joseph was the honored son, and his brothers knew it (v.4). It’s one thing to face a parent’s disapproval because you didn’t do your homework. Imagine feeling as if you’re a disappointment just because you were born to the wrong woman (v.2). Believing Jacob had rejected them in preferring Joseph, his brothers retaliated by stripping him of his coat and his dignity (vv.20-24).
From the beginning of creation, family relationships have been difficult (Genesis 4:8). Relational issues are inevitable. Working through the sin nature of man, the enemy pits family members against each other (Micah 7:6). Responding to the hurt by hurting others only continues the cycle. Putting our hearts in alignment with God’s, however, allows healing and restoration to begin (Luke 1:17). —Regina Franklin, Our Daily Journey
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Celebrate Recovery in Christ
September 20, 2009
Celebrate Recovery, differs from most World-Service Organization sponsored 12-step programs in that it is unabashedly faith-based and Christ-centered, naming ‘Jesus’ as the ‘higher power’ responsible for healing any ailment in one’s life.
Groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon, Narcotics Anonymous and others, encourage members to name their own higher power. Some believe this helps attract newcomer addicts to meetings where they otherwise would not join because of the stigma involved in naming ‘God’ or ‘Jesus’ as a higher power.
Countless 12-step groups exist: Adult Children of Alcoholics, Overeaters Anonymous, Crystal Meth Anonymous, Debtors Anonymous, to name a few, and even some less expected, such as Clutterer’s Anonymous, Workaholic’s Anonymous, and Emotions Anonymous.
There are online meetings. There are people meetings. There are phone meetings. There is no shortage of meetings.
So why another 12-step meeting? What makes Celebrate Recovery different?
Besides being explicitly Christ-centered, all Celebrate Recovery meetings are broadly open to and intended to serve individuals suffering from any “hurt, habit, or hangup.”
Advocates and program participants say the process has a healing effect, in that, by naming Jesus Christ as the higher power, healing for any life ailment follows when individuals place their faith in God, as opposed to trying to ‘control’ their addictions or hang-ups themselves.
Lisa Romeo, a member of Parkview Baptist Church in Lexington, leads a women-only Celebrate Recovery group that meets each Tuesday night from 7:30-9 p.m.
According to Paul Pack, one of Parkview’s pastors who works largely with youth, believes that one of Parkview’s strengths is that it strives to help members find their gifts, when considering how they want to serve their fellow community members.
He describes Lisa as a go-to person, someone who works incredibly well behind-the-scenes, who is passionate and dependable. Lisa has taken advantage of trainings and workshops offered through Parkview such as the Vantage Point 3 program which focuses identifying gifts and developing group leadership skills. She now uses this in the Celebrate Recovery meeting leader capacity. Read more
Renewing the Mind
August 25, 2009
Deeply ingrained patterns of thinking and responding have formed strongholds in our minds. Addiction is a stronghold!
Do we have to remain victims of the these mental strongholds for the rest of our lives? Absolutely not!
If we have been trained wrong, can we be retrained? If we have learned to believe a lie, can we now choose to believe the truth? If we have programmed our computers wrong, can they be reprogrammed? Absolutely!
But we have to want to renew our minds. How?
Our lives are transformed as we renew our minds through the hearing of God’s Word, Bible studies, personal discipleship and Christ-centered counseling.
Reprogramming the Mind
August 11, 2009
by Neil Anderson
1 Peter 1:13
Gird your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ
Since we came into this world physically alive but spiritually dead, we had neither the presence of God in our lives nor the knowledge of His will. Our minds were programmed to live independently of Him. We were mentally conformed to this world.
When we became Christians, nobody pushed the CLEAR button in our preprogrammed minds. Even as Christians we can still allow our minds to be programmed by the world. So what must we do?
First, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:1). How do you renew your mind? By filling it with God’s Word.
Second, Peter directs us to prepare our minds for action (1 Peter 1:13). Do away with fruitless fantasy. To imagine yourself doing things without ever doing anything is dangerous. But if you can mentally prepare yourself in advance to obey the truth, you can motivate yourself toward productive living–as long as you follow through by doing what you imagine.
Third, take every thought captive in obedience to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5). Practice threshold thinking. Evaluate every thought by the truth, and don’t let your mind entertain thoughts contrary to the will of God.
Fourth, turn to God. When your commitment to do the will of God is being challenged by thoughts from the world, the flesh, or the devil, bring it to God in prayer (Philippians 4:6). By doing so you are acknowledging God and exposing your thoughts to His truth. Your double-mindedness will dissolve “and the peace of God . . . shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:7).
Fifth, assume your responsibility to think. “Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things” (Philippians 4:8).
Prayer:
Lord, I commit myself to practice these steps daily in order to bring my mind under Your control.
Abandon Yourself to God
July 22, 2009
According to Webster Merriam Dictionary an addict is one who abandons oneself, to become physiologically or psychologically dependent in a compulsive or obsessive manner to a habit, practice, or substance. The core issue is stated in this definition… ‘Abandoning Oneself’. Who or what are you abandoning yourself to? An addict chooses to fulfill their needs by using an outside source, drugs, alcohol, gambling, pornography, etc. they become a slave to their addiction in an attempt to perpetuate the fulfillment of their need.
However, God has asked us to abandon ourselves to Him and ultimately He is the source for our provision. From the very beginning He has given us the choice to rely on Him for our strength, however, we in all of our humanity often choose to rely on our own strength… this fails us, so we turn to other sources to meet those needs, to numb us to our inability to have control over our lives, to stay on top, to be in charge, to “have it all together”; or maybe just to make it through the day. As long as you continue to think that you can get out of this by your own strength and resources, you will continue to try.
You’re trying to save your pride and that is keeping you from experiencing the grace of God. Many of us try overcoming addiction on our own; some of us put our confidence in secular programs and popular strategies. These may help addicts achieve a degree of abstinence, but the emotional, mental and spiritual freedom for which they long for will continue to elude them. We can not achieve total control of our lives by sheer human effort. Ironically, when we surrender to the Lordship of Christ we experience self-control, which is a Fruit of the Spirit. We are saved and sanctified by faith not by how we behave.
Paul wrote ‘not that we are adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God, who also made us adequate as servants to a new covenant, not of the letter, but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.’ (2 Cor. 3:5-6)
Making Choices – Are We Really Free?
July 12, 2009
When God created us he gave us the freedom of choice. Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on how you look at it, we are in bondage to the consequences of that choice. Some people define freedom as the right to exercise their own choices, to be free moral agents. No restrictions! “I can do whatever I want to do,” say the libertarians, defending the right to make their own choices. “If I want to have a drink, I’m going to have a drink.” They don’t seem to have a clue as to how deep their bondage is… freedom doesn’t lie only in the exercise of choice; it is also always related to the consequences of that choice.
I suppose I am “free” to tell a lie, but wouldn’t I be in bondage to that choice? I would have to remember to whom I told the lie and what I told them. I suppose I am “free” to rob a bank, but wouldn’t I be in bondage to that act the rest of my life? I would always be looking over my shoulder, wondering if I would be caught. We can choose to drink shots all night, sleep with a prostitute, or inject heroin into our body… but we would have to live with the consequences of each choice.
So, I ask you, are we really free? The bible says in Deu 30:19
“I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. So choose life in order that you may live.”
A Message of Hope – and a Plan of Action
July 12, 2009
Addiction forges its own chains of pain and problems that grow with each day and seem impossible to overcome. If you, or someone you know, are a captive of addictive behavior, the Word of God and New Heart Place have both a message of hope and a plan of action. Anyone can be set free from addictive behavior, can experience victory in Jesus, and become an overcomer in life! The key is to identify the root cause of your problem and instead of running away from it, run to God! Do this, and your mind and spirit will be renewed; and no matter what you struggle with, you will find freedom in Christ!
Testimony of God’s Overcoming Addiction Power
July 6, 2009
Hello my name is Richard, and this is my testimony of God’s overcoming addiction power:
My mother loved myself and my siblings, and as a single parent did the best she could to provide for all of our needs. Sometimes providing for us included moving; different neighborhoods, different towns, and even different states. I had changed schools at least eight times before I was thirteen. I always felt like an outsider and that I did not fit in. Having quality friendships was difficult. I had finished elementary school with exceptional grades. That changed as I entered middle school. I made friends with the wrong people, I skipped school, and ultimately began smoking marijuana and drinking. My mother moved me to my Grandparents home and I accepted Jesus Christ as my Savior for the first time. My life changed.
I missed my family and returned to Portland. I believed things would be different, but they were not. By the time I was sixteen I had experimented with hard drugs and dropped out of school. I began working full time, which afforded me to continue in the same lifestyle and at that age it was very appealing, my life was out of control. At nineteen I went through my first treatment program, passed the ASVAB test, and went into the Army. I was finally on the right track. I left all of my former life behind thinking a change of environment would solve the problem. However, I began to drink, and eventually was using cocaine again. I returned home to Oregon. In Portland the same people were still doing the same activities, nothing I wanted to be a part of, I requested a transfer to Washington to be near my family. I knew that if I just had the support of my family and church everything would turn out all right.
The problem was not the environment, or the circumstances, or the friends, it was me. Read more