Real resentment over real damage by a real person produces a justifiable resentment, and it becomes such a huge part of your life that it feels like a vulture sitting on top of you, a dark and dangerous presence that affects everything that you do.

If the resentment was not justifiable, someone could just talk [...]]]> http://blog.spiritledrecovery.com/2009/11/02/the-choice-to-forgive-healing-is-a-choice-part-2-new-life-article-answers/feed/ 0 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SpiritLedRecovery/~3/03NxotudPGk/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SpiritLedRecovery/~3/03NxotudPGk/#comments Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:31:57 +0000 admin http://blog.spiritledrecovery.com/?p=168 Stephen Arterburn

The Seventh Big Lie: ‘Forgiveness is only for those who deserve it or earn it.’

The fact that you are even reading these words is a miracle, because you have read a lot of stuff on forgiveness and understand everyone’s angle on it, and none of it does one bit of good for you and [...]]]> http://blog.spiritledrecovery.com/2009/11/02/the-choice-to-forgive-healing-is-a-choice-part-1-new-life-article-answers/feed/ 0